Get Your Brain Beach Ready With These Top Tips For Mental Health
Contributing Authors: Dr. Liz Faber and Dr. Tess Deyett
Raise your hand if you struggle with mental health. If we could be in a room right now you would see everyone's hand raised. Mental health is hard and we live in a society that is only just starting to realize how important mental health is. I struggled with mental health for years from middle school throughout college. And after more than a decade of stress, anxiety, depression, and self-doubt I made some changes.
Now, these changes nowhere near cured me of my anxiety and depression. I still have bad days but after taking up these daily habits I can honestly say my Ph.D. years were the happiest of my life.
If this shocks you, I'm not surprised, 36% of graduate students around the world report struggles with anxiety and depression. I would argue this percentage is likely much higher as the survey only collected just over 6,000 responses. Another survey conducted specifically in the United Kingdom obtained 50,000 responses from graduate students, of these, 86% reported feelings of anxiety during their graduate studies. A 2018 study of mostly PhDs, reported nearly 40% of respondents scored moderate-to-severe depression. This is astronomical when you look at the 6% of the general public who scored the same way.
PhDs, Master's students, and undergraduate students are a vulnerable population, bombarded by high stress and constantly being plowed down by an avalanche of expectations. And this is without the constant nagging of your family:
"When will you be done?"
"How can you be in school for so long and not have a 'real' job?"
"what can you even do with that degree?"
Managing your Mental Health as A Ph.D. Or An Academic
Managing your mental health is a constant struggle but it's not impossible no matter who you are or where you are at. We want to help you get a mental health makeover. We want to share with you the top mental health tips you can use right now and every day to get your brain beach ready for the summer and beyond! Here are our top tips for mental health to make the Ph.D. you, the best version of yourself.
1. Seriously Schedule Social Time
Your work will easily consume your life if you let it. But it doesn’t have to! Schedule a recurring walking phone call with a friend, a weekly coffee social with a colleague, or even a monthly happy hour with your lab! Schedule social time not work time!
2. Shun Those That Do Not Serve You
After a conversation ask yourself do you feel drained or energized? If you feel drained that relationship is not serving you and over time this can grind you down in all sorts of negative ways. If the relationship is energizing these are the relationships you should cultivate (see tip #1). If it is draining, don't be afraid to shun that person or limit the amount of time you see them. Academia is draining and there are certain anxiety-driving situations (i.e. presentations, lab meetings, one-one meetings with your boss) you just can't escape! When you can't escape, “shun.” Make boundaries with the “drainers.” This could be as simple as stating you are not available to work on Sundays, or you will not respond to emails after 9 pm.
3. Build a 15 min “It’s All About Me” Mental Health Routine
This is the best thing I ever did for myself! Wake up 15 minutes earlier and do this routine every morning! This can be anything that makes you happy. Go for a run, meditate, start a gratitude journal or do what PhDs think is nearly impossible, read a book for fun! Whatever it is do it every day and make it just for YOU!
4. Know Your Priorities
Life is distracting! And that’s ok. Write down your top three priorities and put
them someplace you’ll see every day! This can be a great ender to your "It's All About Me" routine. Just make sure you are making them realistic. If your goal is to submit a paper by the end of the month then maybe today your priority is to write the first draft of the introduction. Protip: don't make all your priorities about work!
5. Meet People outside Your Academic Circle
As a PhD the only thing we talked about more than how much we loved science is how much we hated it! Academic circles are great for networking but are exhausting, negative, and can be abusive. The constant talk about your project, your PI your friend's project can quickly lead to imposter syndrome. Find circles you don’t have to prove your worth all the time. Join a group, learn a new skill, or try intramural sports. Beat imposter syndrome!
6. Remember the Bigger Picture - put it on notecard/post it!
It’s easy to get lost in the nuances of your experiment and feel only failure.
Remember the bigger picture every day. It’s not just the broader impact of your work either it's also your WHY. WHY did you want a Ph.D.? Why did you choose this school? When we ask and answer 'Why' questions we gain a deeper understanding of who we are and what our motivations are. They can remind us what excites us and makes us happy.
7. How did you take care of your body today?
Always remember your body (and you trillion of microbes!) needs lots of love and you're the only person in the whole world that can give it! Find ways every day to thank and show gratitude to your body that provides so much for you.
8. Define Yourself Outside Of Work
What are you passionate about, outside of work? Who are you in other areas of
your life? Take some time to write out your core values, interests, and passions, and return to them often to help keep you grounded.
9. Understand Your Motivations
When you feel burnt out, take a few minutes to reflect on the part of your work that energizes you. Why did you go into this discipline in the first place? What do you look forward to? What work are you most proud of?
10. Delete It!
Every academic feels like an impostor at some point. When you have those
thoughts, imagine your brain is a computer and the impostor thoughts are files. Delete the file, close the program, and go back to being your awesome academic self!
11. Look forward
Pick something small that makes you happy that you can look forward to each week. It can be anything from an outfit you’re excited to wear, a day trip to the beach with your family, or spending a few hours this weekend on that hobby you love.
12. Create a Compliment file/jar
Any time you receive a compliment from a supervisor, PI, student, or colleague, print it out and put it in a file folder or jar. When you’re feeling down, take out a compliment and remind yourself of the wonderful work you do!
13. Ask For Help!
Every one of us needs help sometimes. The bravest thing you can do is ask. Don’t forget to pay it forward, too--when others ask you for help, lend a hand! If you’re not sure where to start, there are so many resources for you!
14. Hold Yourself Accountable for Care!
Tell a friend, write in a journal, tweet it out! Whatever you choose, be consistent, and take a few minutes each day to reflect.
15. Forgive Yourself and let go of the guilt!
Don’t be afraid to tell yourself out loud that you messed up and will do better next
time, then let it go.
Well, my friends, those are our 15 tips for mental health. Did you find them helpful? What do you do to promote mental health in your daily lives? Tell us in a comment below or send us a tweet @microbigals and @LizWFab!